A Modern Relationship School for Self-Aware Single Women Who Are Ready to Attract the Love of Their Life

A Modern Relationship School for Self-Aware Women Who Want to Break Old Patterns and Create Soul-Level Love 

You're ready for the kind of relationship where…
You feel seen, heard, and valued, because your man listens attentively as you speak, empathizes with you, celebrates and supports you, challenges you, and sees your greatness

You feel safe and secure, because he welcomes all of your emotions, encourages your expression, and affirms his love for you at every turn

You feel confident and grounded that you can navigate anything together because he shows up as a team player and leader, ready to find win-win solutions in challenging moments

You feel appreciated, adored, and desired because he’s attentive to your needs, attuned to your body, and makes intentional efforts to show how much he cares

You have a partner who can be your trusted confidant, your passionate lover, and your best friend
You're ready for the kind of relationship where…
You feel seen, heard, and valued, because your man listens attentively as you speak, empathizes with you, celebrates and supports you, challenges you, and sees your greatness

You feel safe and secure, because he welcomes all of your emotions, encourages your expression, and affirms his love for you at every turn

You feel confident and grounded that you can navigate anything together because he shows up as a team player and leader, ready to find win-win solutions in challenging moments

You feel appreciated, adored, and desired because he’s attentive to your needs, attuned to your body, and makes intentional efforts to show how much he cares

You have a partner who can be your trusted confidant, your passionate lover, and your best friend
However, throughout most of history, marriage and partnership was not intended to satisfy our needs for intimacy and romance...
The way we do love and relationships has changed drastically over the past few decades..
The old paradigm was based on tight structures, rigid gender roles, and forming a union based on a practical business alliance between two families...

Marriage/partnership wasn't about love and passion...

It was about stability, practicality, and convenience...

Today, we want and expect something much different…
We want our relationships to be meaningful, transcendent, sexual, novel, fulfilling, spiritual, erotic, passionate – and so much more!
Women are craving to feel deeply known, held, valued, and loved…
Yet, we’re straddling the old and new paradigm, while evolving in real time…

We went from living in an era where a man's main role in the relationship was to be a provider and protector of the family and a woman's main role was to raise the children and manage the household…

While it used to be enough for a man to simply be a financial provider...

These days, that feels far from enough...

Now, women can make their own money and provide for themselves (radically shifting the role they desire for their man to play)...
Today, women want men who are willing to do the inner work & cultivate emotional intelligence, and with whom they can build a true partnership...
But no one taught us how to 'do' love and relationships in this new paradigm (hence the 50% + divorce rate)...

This is the first time in history we're expecting relationships to be a vehicle for our personal growth and development…

Wanting for our men to be more than providers, but rather, true partners.

Craving more than just companionship, but a lover, best friend and supporter who helps us actualize into the greatest version of ourselves. 
If you’re reading this page, you’re at the cutting edge of a love revolution! 

You want a spectacularly healthy, thriving, and committed relationship more than anything, but there are a few things standing in the way…
Right now...
If you're single (whether you're actively dating or not), you might: 
  • Feel burnt after being on the emotional rollercoaster of dating where you put yourself out there again, only to feel disappointed and let down that you're not meeting high quality men who are on your level 
  • Feel afraid of attracting the same kinds of men that are emotionally unavailable, passive, get attached too quickly, love bomb then ghost, are emotionally immature, or who resemble one of your parents or past partners (in their patterns and behaviors)
  • Feel hopeless, discouraged, or unsure that you'll meet someone who feels deeply compatible and who will love and accept all of you
  • Feel concerned about repeating past patterns that ultimately led to the demise of your past relationships (i.e. attracting the wrong kinds of men, being unable to speak up for your needs & boundaries, feeling ill equipped to navigate conflict in a healthy way, etc.)
Or if you're dating someone in a more focused way, you might be: 
  • Witnessing some of your old patterns come up (that you are ready to break through), where you:
  • Feel anxious that he'll lose interest, pull away, or end things
  • Feel avoidant and afraid to be vulnerable, open your heart, and let him in
  • Push him away, shut down, and withdraw when things feel hard
  • Have difficulty identifying and speaking up for your needs, boundaries, and desires
  • Have difficulty navigating and regulating your emotions (especially in challenging situations)
  • Experiencing body image issues that keep you from the connected sex you desire
  • Recreating dynamics from past relationships or that you witnessed in your parent's relationship
If any of this sounds familiar...
You're stuck in the doomed dating & relationship loop
We promise, this is NOT your fault! (You'll find out why in a moment)...

When you're stuck here, you recycle old thoughts, beliefs, and ideas about yourself, men, dating, and relationships that cause you to recreate undesirable results...

Whether your looping is about body image, worthiness, sexuality, whether or not you can trust men, or anything else...

Until you address the core beliefs that are responsible for the thoughts, feelings, and actions that cause undesirable results...

You cannot fully or permanently create the kind of relationship you actually want…

(You’ll only be putting fires out at the surface, which can keep you busy for a lifetime)!

This is happening because we’re all running on programming from childhood. 
We unknowingly spend 95% of our time operating from what we learned until around age seven. 
We watched our parents, siblings, friends, culture and media.

We absorbed it all - patterns, thoughts, behaviors, and what we thought was “normal” in relationships. 

And it still loops in the background of our mind – creating what we’re experiencing everyday. 

It feels real…but it’s not.

Our subconscious is just running on old programming.

Dr. Bruce Lipton (a developmental biologist) figured this out – showing us that wherever we’re struggling in life, it’s because our subconscious has NOT been programmed to support the new normal we want… 

A healthy, thriving, committed relationship. 

On the surface, you want a forever love.

But your subconscious may be running an old program that says something like: 
  • "The kind of love you want isn’t realistic..."
  • "You don't get to have that" or "You're not worthy of that...."
  • "It'll just go away" or "He'll leave you..."
  • "You can't trust him" or "You can't trust love..."
  • "Can you really have everything you want?"
And on and on...

The real reason why you haven’t been able to create the healthy, thriving relationship of your dreams...

(no matter how many dates you go on, partners you cycle through, podcasts you listen to, or therapists you seek…)
Is the same reason why many other self-aware women haven’t been able to do it either…

(despite how intelligent and open-hearted they are)...

And why we, ourselves weren’t able to, until we learned and embodied the one universal law that changed everything…

(and no, it’s not the law of attraction).

Even after spending more than a combined two decades of dating, reading all the books on love, working with our own coaches and therapists...

Neither of us was able to create or sustain a healthy, passionate, lasting relationship… 

Cue: 
  • Attracting people that didn't feel deeply compatible
  • Cycling through partners
  • Feeling burnt out and exhausted with dating (hoping the next partner would be the 'answer' to all our dating woes)
  • Getting into relationships that started great, but devolved into constant arguments
  • Being in relationships where the spark was lost and we turned into roommates instead of lovers (drifting apart and eventually ending) 
...Only for the cycle to start again with the next partner

We both repeated these dating and relationship patterns for years before meeting each other...

Wondering if dating and love would always feel like an emotional rollercoaster, secretly hoping it could be different...

(Yet having no idea how to make it so)...

It wasn’t until we discovered the secret ‘hiding in plain sight,’ that we were able to attract each other…

This so-called ‘secret,’ is actually a universal law that governs how ALL relationships work.

Understanding and embodying this law took us from being people that repeated painful dating and love patterns, to…

We both repeated these dating and relationship patterns for years before meeting each other...

Wondering if dating and love would always feel like an emotional rollercoaster, secretly hoping it could be different...

(Yet having no idea how to make it so)...

It wasn’t until we discovered the secret ‘hiding in plain sight,’ that we were able to attract each other…

This so-called ‘secret,’ is actually a universal law that governs how ALL relationships work.

Understanding and embodying this law took us from being people that repeated painful dating and love patterns, to…
Serendipitously meeting each other (one fateful spring day at a personal development workshop in Brooklyn, NY)...

Cultivating a deep friendship as the foundation for how we relate (which we did before things turned romantic)

And creating the kind of relationship where we value and prioritize our growth and evolution.

It's important for us to share that we don't have a "perfect" relationship...

But we sure as hell do have a RESILIENT relationship...

One that is adaptable and changes with us...

One that gives us energy (instead of draining us of energy)...

One where there's space for BOTH of our experiences and ALL of our emotions...

One that allows us to express our needs and fulfill our desires...

And that's all we could really ask for!
Serendipitously meeting each other (one fateful spring day at a personal development workshop in Brooklyn, NY)...

Cultivating a deep friendship as the foundation for how we relate (which we did before things turned romantic)

And creating the kind of relationship where we value and prioritize our growth and evolution.

It's important for us to share that we don't have a "perfect" relationship...

But we sure as hell do have a RESILIENT relationship...

One that is adaptable and changes with us...

One that gives us energy (instead of draining us of energy)...

One where there's space for BOTH of our experiences and ALL of our emotions...

One that allows us to express our needs and fulfill our desires...

And that's all we could really ask for!

So, how do you create a Resilient Relationship?


There are a few things you need to know to really get how healthy attraction and relating work…

Because Disney and Hollywood 
have sold us lies about love...









Real life love isn’t about: 
  • Being 'saved' by a knight in shining armor
  • ‘Losing’ yourself and becoming needless/wantless
  • Being ‘perfect’ and without flaws 
  • Living ‘happily ever after’ in effortless, eternal bliss (though this sounds really nice)
And it’s also not about:
  • Unconsciously recreating your parent’s relationship
  • Repeating patterns from your past relationships, thinking: this is how it ‘has’ to be
  • Sacrificing your own needs, desires and boundaries to make your partners happy
  • Pushing your partners away when things get hard and trying to solve things on your own
In fact, real life (healthy) love and relationships require that you:
  • Become aware of your unhealthy patterns and work through them
  • Get in touch with and take radical responsibility for your emotions, needs, boundaries and desires
  • Communicate compassionately and constructively, even when things get hard
  • Listen with deep presence and empathize with your partner's experience
  • Cultivate the ability to challenge your outdated narratives and beliefs 
This is the foundation for a Resilient Relationship...

One that grows and evolves as you do...

Inviting you to rise up to your highest potential...

So you can create a relationship that INSPIRES you!

But here’s the thing, the majority of us never learned how to relate in a healthy way because we didn’t have healthy models for love…


It's likely that you experienced one or more of the following: 
  • Strained love between your parents/caregivers where what was modeled was: destructive communication, conflict, inauthenticity, withdrawing & shutting down, defensiveness, anger, blaming, keeping score, martyrdom, etc. 
  • Divorce, separation, or death where there wasn't consistent love, support, or presence provided by two parents 
  • Parents who were indifferent to each other and tolerated each other, but where there wasn't true partnership
  • Or, if your parents are still happily married, they didn't teach you the skills required for YOU to be able to create the healthy, thriving relationship you desire

But here’s the thing, the majority of us never learned how to relate in a healthy way because we didn’t have healthy models for love…


It's likely that you experienced one or more of the following: 
  • Strained love between your parents/caregivers where what was modeled was: destructive communication, conflict, inauthenticity, withdrawing & shutting down, defensiveness, anger, blaming, keeping score, martyrdom, etc. 
  • Divorce, separation, or death where there wasn't consistent love, support, or presence provided by two parents 
  • Parents who were indifferent to each other and tolerated each other, but where there wasn't true partnership
  • Or, if your parents are still happily married, they didn't teach you the skills required for YOU to be able to create the healthy, thriving relationship you desire

What we want to offer you is something radically different from your childhood, and even better and more satisfying than Disney & Hollywood!

What’s on offer, is a sure shot way to build the foundation for the guaranteed BEST relationship of your life…

Imagine you could create the kind of relationship where…

  • You feel deeply safe and authentic in your expression, never again needing to hide or minimize your thoughts, feelings and emotions…
  • You feel calm and relaxed knowing that you still get to have your autonomy and independence AND a connected, loving relationship with your partner – no more needing to lose yourself or push him away… 
  • You feel more confident than ever before that you’ve chosen the right man, he has chosen you, and you’re actively creating a relationship by design (instead of playing out old patterns where you feel anxious and fearful, detached and indifferent, or where you’re constantly riding a roller coaster of emotions)...
In fact, you feel so grounded in your dynamic because you and he have really effective ways of talking through the hard things, while keeping the passion and spark alive…
So, here's the ONE THING that must happen for you to: 
  • Become magnetic to high quality men who are emotionally available and ready to commit (if you're single and dating)
  • Create a healthy, thriving relationship where you and you and your partner are deeply aligned on your values and are able to create that “better than you’ve ever imagined” kind of love (if you're already dating someone in a focused way) 

YOU MUST BE THE

partner to yourself

THAT YOU WANT YOUR MAN TO BE TO YOU

Until you create a healthy, thriving relationship with YOURSELF, you WON'T be able to with anyone else.

Success in a relationship (with him) starts with your relationship to yourself…

This may seem obvious, but let us explain why it works this way…

YOU MUST BE THE

partner to yourself

THAT YOU WANT YOUR MAN TO BE TO YOU

Until you create a healthy, thriving relationship with YOURSELF, you WON'T be able to with anyone else.

Success in a relationship (with him) starts with your relationship to yourself…

This may seem obvious, but let us explain why it works this way…

We operate by the Universal Law of Correspondence

The Law of Correspondence states that what happens around us, is a direct reflection of what is happening within us.

In other words, our internal environment determines our external environment. 

Or as the saying goes: "As above, so below. As within, so without." 

And here's the thing about relationships...









Relationships are Fractals 

There is ONE master pattern that governs the rest of the patterns that stem from it. 

In other words, your relationship with yourself gets projected onto everyone you meet and relate to. 

All other relationships mirror the one you have with yourself. 

When you shift your relationship with yourself – by design – you shift your relationship with EVERYONE in your life…

Including:
The men you attract, 
The men you date, and
The men you choose to be in a relationship with

And the kind of relationship you can create with a man (when you show up as the best partner to yourself) is exponentially healthier and more aligned than any other kind of relationship. 
So how do you create spectacular love when…

You weren't given a template for healthy relating that is aligned with the kind of love life you actually desire…

So where did you get your original love template (i.e. your beliefs, ideas, and narratives about yourself, men, love, relationships?)








So how do you create spectacular love when…

You weren't given a template for healthy relating that is aligned with the kind of love life you actually desire…

So where did you get your original love template (i.e. your beliefs, ideas, and narratives about yourself, men, love, relationships?)







Your original love blueprint was informed by:
  • What you experienced as a child in your relationship with your parents/caregivers/significant role models
  • What you witnessed in your parent’s/caregivers’ relationship
  • Societal, cultural, and religious conditioning 
And based on:
  • Whether or not you felt consistently and unconditionally loved, accepted, and supported 
  • Whether or not you witnessed your parents/caregivers express love, care, affection, and respect toward each other
  • The kinds of messages you received from your community, society, religious leaders/mentors, and any conditioning you may have taken on as a result of cultural influence
This determined:
  • How you feel about and relate to yourself - whether or not you feel worthy and deserving of consistent, unconditional love
  • How you feel about and relate to men 
  • How safe (or not) it feels for you to be connected to and in relationship with others
  • What you perceive is possible for you in your dating and love life
  • The thoughts/beliefs that inform your actions/behaviors (which ultimately determine your results) 
This determined:
  • How you feel about and relate to yourself - whether or not you feel worthy and deserving of consistent, unconditional love
  • How you feel about and relate to men 
  • How safe (or not) it feels for you to be connected to and in relationship with others
  • What you perceive is possible for you in your dating and love life
  • The thoughts/beliefs that inform your actions/behaviors (which ultimately determine your results) 
Which dictates how you show up in your romantic relationships…
  • How you see/feel about relationships – are they a space where you get to be in connection, while still having a sense of autonomy OR is there a fear of/tendency toward enmeshment, co-dependence, or hyper independence?
  • The kinds of partners you’re drawn to and the ones you filter out – are you attracted to emotionally available men who treat you with love and respect OR are you attracted to men who are unable to provide the mental, emotional, and physical love/support you desire?
  • The way you show up in romantic relationships – do you generally feel open, relaxed, and curious in dating/relationships OR do you feel fear, apprehension, suspicion, and skepticism?
  • The quality, trajectory and fate of your relationships – do your relationships feel loving, connected, resilient, and long-lasting OR do they tend to follow a similar undesirable trajectory and fate?

And if you’re a human who’s experiencing life, then you experienced wounding and trauma at some point along the way…

Be it the experience of emotional hurt and pain over something a parent said to you when you were a child, to witnessing a divorce or loss, all the way to severe neglect and abuse.

And until you (or any of us, for that matter) does the inner work/exploration to understand and resolve your wounding, you’ll see it play out various ways, including, but not limited to:
Feeling disconnected from yourself:
  • Unable to identify and constructively navigate your emotions
  • Difficulty identifying and expressing needs and asserting boundaries
  • Feeling disconnected from your desires and what brings you joy/pleasure 
  • Feeling disconnected from your body, overwriting its messages for rest, attention, and care
Repeating undesirable behaviors or patterns:
  • People pleasing
  • Avoiding, withdrawing, or pulling away 
  • Shutting down, freezing, or dissociating 
  • Becoming anxious, worried, or fearsome 
  • Invulnerability, keeping others at arm’s length, keeping a wall up
  • Minimizing, suppressing, or repressing your needs and emotions
  • Using coping mechanisms such as substances, sex, food, technology, or work to avoid emotions or difficult experiences 
Having unhelpful thoughts & beliefs:
  • I’ll never find love
  • I’m not good enough
  • I need to change who I am
  • I’ll always attract the wrong men 
  • I should prioritize other’s needs over my own
  • There are no compatible men who can meet me on my level
  • The other shoe is gonna drop and he’ll leave/this relationship will end

And the fascinating thing about human behavior is that until your wounds are witnessed with love and resolved, you (like any human) will re-enact the past painful experiences in your present day relationships. 

This is called Repetition Compulsion

It’s when we unknowingly (and unconsciously) repeat behaviors or patterns or recreate situations that resemble past traumatic experiences, in an attempt to resolve the emotional wounds, or make sense of or gain mastery over the traumatic event. 

Which means you will subconsciously seek partners with whom you can reenact the wounding, in a very intelligent attempt to resolve it once and for all…

This is why you may find yourself attracting or attracted to certain kinds of men:
  • Passive Patrick: who doesn't take leadership or make decisions
  • Player Pete: who wants to keep his options open and 'play the field'
  • Controlling Cameron: who tries to dictate your choices, criticizes and becomes possessive
  • Narcissistic Nik: who never takes responsibility, points the finger, and blames
  • Insecure Ivan: who overcompensates, avoids vulnerability, and seeks validation
  • Nice Guy Nathan: who's excessively nice, lacks boundaries, and doesn't have strong opinions
  • Bad Boy Blake: who is emotionally unavailable, unpredictable, and won't commit
And recreating certain dynamics (even if consciously, you know it’s painful or undesirable)…

Or where you play a similar role in one relationship after the next where you're the:
  • Teacher: who guides her man
  • Mother: who coddles and takes care of him
  • Pleaser: who tip-toes and tries to keep the peace
  • Micro-Manager: who controls and criticizes him
  • Leaver: who leaves when things get hard
  • Damsel: who collapses and feels helpless
  • Martyr: who takes it all on and sacrifices herself
And while all of this may feel a bit heavy or daunting, it’s actually A GOOD THING!  

This means that, as you become aware of your patterns, you bring them from your unconscious mind into your conscious mind. 

Which then — get ready for it…

Means that you actually have the POWER to shift your beliefs and patterns and create an entirely new reality! 

A reality of your choosing – one that’s designed to meet your needs, fulfill your desires, and allow you to create the love life of your wildest dreams! 

Here's some more great news...

In order to create your dream love life, where you’re in a healthy, thriving, passionate relationship with an incredible man…
  • You don’t need to be ‘perfect’ (you’re already lovable and worthy)
  • You don’t need to find the ‘perfect’ partner (but a man who’s willing to do the inner work)
  • You don’t need to have ‘perfect’ relationship (leave that to Instagram influencers)
  • You don’t even need to have done ‘all the inner work’ before you can meet him or create a thriving relationship (because you and he will do that together)
What a relief! 

In fact, you’re going to find partners who are perfectly imperfect, beautiful human beings (like you and the rest of us)...

Because ‘perfection’ doesn’t actually exist. 

(it’s just a made up concept humans use to beat ourselves up)

The truth is, stuff will come up and there will be challenging moments…

But if you…
View your relationships as a vehicle for your growth and evolution, 

See your partners as beautiful mirror reflections of you,

And relate to yourself as a powerful woman who can create anything she desires…
Then, you’re guaranteed to create a spectacularly rich and fulfilling love life! 

So let us make this simple…
You only need 4 core shifts:
  • Identify and resolve your core patterns (this is easier than you think)
  • Create a new blueprint for love (one based on conscious choice) 
  • Connect to your emotions and your body (this is where unshakable intimacy with yourself starts)
  • Develop skills and capacity for healthy intimacy with a partner (this is how you create a resilient, passionate, lasting relationship)
If you just focus on these four things, you can…

You only need 4 core shifts:
  • Identify and resolve your core patterns (this is easier than you think)
  • Create a new blueprint for love (one based on conscious choice) 
  • Connect to your emotions and your body (this is where unshakable intimacy with yourself starts)
  • Develop skills and capacity for healthy intimacy with a partner (this is how you create a resilient, passionate, lasting relationship)
If you just focus on these four things, you can…

Create an unshakable relationship

with yourself:

Cultivating self-love and acceptance so you feel safe in vulnerably expressing your emotions (without needing validation from your partner)

Feeling so grounded and confident in who you are, able to bring your most authentic self to the relationship

Staying in sync with your body, aware of and able to communicate your needs, boundaries, and desires, and feeling completely expressed

Prioritizing what brings you joy, so you can maintain a healthy balance between your individuality and the relationship
Cultivating self-love and acceptance so you feel safe in vulnerably expressing your emotions (without needing validation from your partner)

Feeling so grounded and confident in who you are, able to bring your most authentic self to the relationship

Staying in sync with your body, aware of and able to communicate your needs, boundaries, and desires, and feeling completely expressed

Prioritizing what brings you joy, so you can maintain a healthy balance between your individuality and the relationship

Attract and date high quality men who are also

doing their inner work:

Developing new, healthy relationship patterns, so you can attract & relate to men who are emotionally available and ready for commitment

Becoming aware of your highest values in dating & relationships, only relating to men who are deeply compatible and aligned

Feeling confident and equipped to co-create a relationship grounded in trust, open communication, passion, and intimacy
Developing new, healthy relationship patterns, so you can attract & relate to men who are emotionally available and ready for commitment

Becoming aware of your highest values in dating & relationships, only relating to men who are deeply compatible and aligned

Feeling confident and equipped to co-create a relationship grounded in trust, open communication, passion, and intimacy
 And ultimately…

Create a healthy, thriving relationship that gives you energy, inspires you, supports you to become

the most authentic

version of yourself! 

 And ultimately…

Create a healthy, thriving relationship that gives you energy, inspires you, supports you to become

the most authentic

version of yourself! 













success stories

Helen

“I called someone in the day after the program started! When I started to embody the teachings, I felt so connected to my body and its desires. Now I can manifest almost immediately; it’s wild!”

Rebecca

“Working with Lee, I have been able to realize my power as a full complete woman. I've had the courage to put my feet into the waters of a new relationship and discover the beauty of a partner that is loving, intimate, emotionally connected; one that I can really value, enjoy, and nurture.”

Say goodbye to repeating the same old patterns in dating and love, feeling burnt out, anxious, or hopeless...

And hello to feeling confident, authentic, and expressed, operating from clear values and a vision, and building toward a relationship that is truly aligned!

Introducing

The modern relationship school for self-aware women who want to break old patterns and create soul-level love

A holistic and full-spectrum approach to dating, love, and relationships

  • MIND
Understand and master the inner workings of your mind and create thoughts, beliefs, and values that align with your dream love life
Aligned Attraction incorporates teachings on developmental psychology, behavioral science, and neuroscience
  • BODY
Get deeply in sync with your body, so you can harness the power of your emotions, become deeply attuned to your needs & desires, and authentically access your sensual & sexual energy
Aligned Attraction incorporates teachings on trauma resolution, feminine embodiment, Tantra, and sacred sexuality 
  • HEART
Get connected to your heart, so you can access deep levels of insight, intuition, and emotional intelligence, while authentically expressing your truth
Aligned Attraction incorporates teachings on Masculine/Feminine Polarity, emotional mastery + regulation, and compassionate communication
During the program, you will:
  • Overcome unhealthy relationship patterns caused by conditioning, childhood wounding, and past heartbreak
  • Communicate with confidence, ease, and clarity as you master the art of compassionate communication 
  • Become deeply intimate with and attuned to your body and emotions, allowing you to feel regulated and grounded, even in challenging situations 
  • Embrace your sensuality and sexuality from a place of empowerment and desire
  • Learn how to navigate dating and relationships with intention, no longer repeating old patterns, but creating real, lasting intimacy with yourself and your partner(s)
During the program, you will:
  • Overcome unhealthy relationship patterns caused by conditioning, childhood wounding, and past heartbreak
  • Communicate with confidence, ease, and clarity as you master the art of compassionate communication 
  • Become deeply intimate with and attuned to your body and emotions, allowing you to feel regulated and grounded, even in challenging situations 
  • Embrace your sensuality and sexuality from a place of empowerment and desire
  • Learn how to navigate dating and relationships with intention, no longer repeating old patterns, but creating real, lasting intimacy with yourself and your partner(s)
You will also:
  • Be mentored by Master Intimacy Coaches who have helped countless women overcome old patterns and create healthy, thriving love lives (and who have created this result in their own lives)
  • Have a full blown fan club of hype girls and cheerleaders through the Aligned Attraction Community (like-minded powerful women who are walking alongside you on this journey)
  • Have lifetime access to world class teachings on everything from belief shifting, authentic communication, navigating your emotions, conscious dating & relating, emotionally connected sex, and more!
You will also:
  • Be mentored by Master Intimacy Coaches who have helped countless women overcome old patterns and create healthy, thriving love lives (and who have created this result in their own lives)
  • Have a full blown fan club of hype girls and cheerleaders through the Aligned Attraction Community (like-minded powerful women who are walking alongside you on this journey)
  • Have lifetime access to world class teachings on everything from belief shifting, authentic communication, navigating your emotions, conscious dating & relating, emotionally connected sex, and more!

Who Aligned Attraction is for

Self-aware women who are ready to break old patterns & cultivate the skills and capacity for thriving intimacy, so they can have the relationship of their dreams

Whether you’re:
  • Single and not actively dating, but want to date again soon
  • Single and actively dating one or multiple men
  • Dating one man in a more focused way
Whether you’re:
  • Single and not actively dating, but want to date again soon
  • Single and actively dating one or multiple men
  • Dating one man in a more focused way
You’re…
  • Constantly learning – reading self-help books, listening to podcasts, and attending workshops, yet once the dopamine rush of learning new information wears off, you realize that not much has changed and you’re longing for actual transformation
  • Doing the inner work – reflecting, journaling, meditating, maybe even working with a therapist or practitioner, yet the changes you experience are not nearly as drastic or lasting as you’d like them to be
  • Relatively new to personal development, but you're ready to take radical responsibility for your love life and you want to most efficient, effective way to create lasting results
You’re…
  • Constantly learning – reading self-help books, listening to podcasts, and attending workshops, yet once the dopamine rush of learning new information wears off, you realize that not much has changed and you’re longing for actual transformation
  • Doing the inner work – reflecting, journaling, meditating, maybe even working with a therapist or practitioner, yet the changes you experience are not nearly as drastic or lasting as you’d like them to be
  • Relatively new to personal development, but you're ready to take radical responsibility for your love life and you want to most efficient, effective way to create lasting results
And what you want more than anything is:
  • To have an unf*ckwithable relationship with yourself, where you feel so internally safe, that opening your heart to the right man feels natural and effortless
  • To attract and date men who can meet you on your level, who are emotionally intelligent and available, and who want to do the inner work alongside you
  • Create the kind of relationship where you and him become force multipliers for each other and amplify each other’s strengths, creating a rock solid partnership that can weather any storm
And what you want more than anything is:
  • To have an unf*ckwithable relationship with yourself, where you feel so internally safe, that opening your heart to the right man feels natural and effortless
  • To attract and date men who can meet you on your level, who are emotionally intelligent and available, and who want to do the inner work alongside you
  • Create the kind of relationship where you and him become force multipliers for each other and amplify each other’s strengths, creating a rock solid partnership that can weather any storm

We invite you join
Aligned Attraction!

Are you ready to UNLOCK your

true potential in love?

We’re taking the guesswork out of being in the most spectacular love affair with yourself and creating the relationship of your dreams

Are you ready to UNLOCK your

true potential in love?

We’re taking the guesswork out of being in the most spectacular love affair with yourself and creating the relationship of your dreams

success stories

Alexa

“As I show up in dating as my full, bold self, I’m starting to attract the men I always wanted to attract. The men I attracted before are no longer attractive. I'm looking at people in a different way and it's more about who's the right fit for me rather than me trying to be the right fit for another person…Now, I feel my most feminine and attractive.”

Taylor

“For the first time ever, I’m able to communicate what I want and need! I feel confident expressing these needs (with men) without feeling awkward. My body feels so much safer (in dating)!”

JOIN US FOR THE EXPERIENCE OF A LIFETIME:

Aligned Attraction covers the six core areas that will allow you to overcome old patterns, create an unshakable relationship with yourself, and navigate dating and love with open-hearted confidence, so you can create the healthy, thriving relationship of your dreams

The program consists of a self-paced course + live calls, workshops & virtual retreats

The Aligned Attraction Curriculum & Course

You will have lifetime access to this course 
+ all course updates

Module 1

Rewrite Your Relationship Blueprint

By the end of this module you will:
  • Identify and become aware of the core relational patterns that have kept you stuck and separated from the love life you desire 
  • Have a roadmap for how to shift out of the old patterns and into new, healthy patterns that are aligned your dream love life
  • Create your new love vision and identify your core values, so you can start living from this vision immediately 
  • Define the kind of partner you want to be, so you can embody her NOW

Module 2

Master the Art of Polarity
(Masculine & Feminine Energy)

By the end of this module you will:
  • Have an in depth understanding of masculine and feminine energy and know how to navigate it within yourself and your relationships 
  • Be able to further develop your inner masculine energy, which will allow you to feel confident, clear, and safe within yourself and in your relationships
  • Be able to further surrender into your feminine energy, which will allow you to be connected to your emotions and body, express yourself authentically, and tap into your sensual/sexual energy 

Module 3

Emotional Mastery

By the end of this module you will:
  • Be able to identify and masterfully navigate your emotions
  • Get clear on your deepest desires and be able to powerfully communicate them
  • Be able to navigate rejection and other challenging experiences that come with dating/relationships 
  • Be able to communicate clearly and compassionately in the face of disagreement, conflict, and boundary violations

Module 4

Conscious Dating

By the end of this module you will:
  • Become aware of the core patterns that lead to undesirable results in your dating life + have a clear map to shift them
  • Define and live from your core values, so you only spend time with men who are aligned with your values
  • Identify your red, yellow, and green flags, so you can make grounded decisions about who you date
  • Know how to take emotional leadership in progressing or ending a dating dynamic 

Module 5

Conscious Relating

By the end of this module you will:
  • Have a clear vision for how to create and navigate a new relationship + commitment 
  • Have a clear vision for the kind of partner you want to be + practices to embody this version of you NOW
  • Be able to step out of codependent/hyper independent dynamics and create healthy interdependence, where you get to maintain autonomy AND connection
  • Know how to identify and communicate healthy boundaries 
  • Be able to effectively navigate conflict and create repair 

Module 6

Conscious Sexuality

By the end of this module you will:
  • Have the tools to navigate challenging emotions like judgment, shame, guilt, embarrassment, etc. 
  • Be able to relate to your body and sexuality in a loving, compassionate way
  • Be connected to your needs, boundaries, and desires and be able to clearly communicate them
  • Feel deeply safe, expressed, grounded, and confident in who you are as a sensual & sexual being
  • Uncover and discover your sexual desires in a way that feels empowered and authentic
  • Redefine and anchor into your own authentic definition of ‘sexy’ and ‘erotic,’ so you can date and relate from this place

Live Coaching Calls

You will have an entire year of access to these calls
Twice a month, we'll come together live on Zoom, where you’ll receive world class teachings on dating, love, and relationships, as well as expert coaching that will help you create shifts ON and immediately after the call. 

You'll receive personalized support with your specific challenges and get to witness other women's breakthroughs.

This is a space where you'll receive consistent and powerful support, while getting to calibrate to the reality where you're already living your dream love life. 
Twice a month, we'll come together live on Zoom, where you’ll receive world class teachings on dating, love, and relationships, as well as expert coaching that will help you create shifts ON and immediately after the call. 

You'll receive personalized support with your specific challenges and get to witness other women's breakthroughs.

This is a space where you'll receive consistent and powerful support, while getting to calibrate to the reality where you're already living your dream love life. 

Virtual Retreats

You will have an entire year of access to these retreats
Each quarter, we’ll come together on Zoom for a half-day live, virtual retreat, where we dive deep into the most relevant topics in dating & relationships. 

You'll get an opportunity to receive live coaching, so you can embody the concepts right away, as well as witness other women get coached, allowing you to benefit from their transformation. 

This is also a space to cultivate important relational skills like setting boundaries, speaking up for your needs, resolving conflict, etc. 
Each quarter, we’ll come together on Zoom for a half-day live, virtual retreat, where we dive deep into the most relevant topics in dating & relationships. 

You'll get an opportunity to receive live coaching, so you can embody the concepts right away, as well as witness other women get coached, allowing you to benefit from their transformation. 

This is also a space to cultivate important relational skills like setting boundaries, speaking up for your needs, resolving conflict, etc. 

The Aligned Attraction Community

You will have lifetime access to this community
As soon as you join Aligned Attraction, you’ll be invited to a thriving, private social network of powerful women who are also doing the inner work and are actively creating their dream love lives. 

Be inspired, supported, and uplifted every step of the way and create lifelong friendships with value-driven women. 

Women in our programs have gone on to become clients of each other, bookclub partners, and life long friends.
As soon as you join Aligned Attraction, you’ll be invited to a thriving, private social network of powerful women who are also doing the inner work and are actively creating their dream love lives. 

Be inspired, supported, and uplifted every step of the way and create lifelong friendships with value-driven women. 

Women in our programs have gone on to become clients of each other, bookclub partners, and life long friends.
Hear what other women are saying about the Aligned Attraction experience 
Curious what it's like inside?
Coaching Session Sneak Peek:
 Update Your Love Blueprint
Coaching Session Sneak Peek:
Core Beliefs in Relationships
Coaching Session Sneak Peek:
Polarity
Coaching Session Sneak Peek:
Emotions & Sensuality
Coaching Session Sneak Peek:
Conscious Dating
Coaching Session Sneak Peek:
Conscious Relating

What You’ll Receive Inside Aligned Attraction

  • The Aligned Attraction Course + Community
  • 2x/month live coaching calls 
  • 1x/quarter live virtual (half day) retreats
  • Access to all bonus trainings and workshops
success stories

Shalini

“I was able to call in The One and I'm in a beautiful committed partnership now. I've completely transformed my relationship with myself, I just feel so much more in tune with my body.There's just a genuine self-acceptance that I didn't feel like I truly had before, and I get to walk this earth feeling so much more safe. This program has really helped me love myself and my partner in a deeper way, it's just profound.”

Helen

"In this program, I've been able to really get in touch with my inner desires that have been buried for such a long time that I didn't even think I had them anymore. I'm no longer afraid to date, in fact I feel so excited to get out and explore. I've realized that my relationship with myself is a direct reflection of the type of people I call into my life - and I feel so much more connected to myself and can hold an unwavering presence for myself." 

Dana

"My relationship to myself and others has changed dramatically. I feel so much more love and compassion for myself, have strong loving boundaries that allow me to navigate intimacy at MY pace, and feel so much more permission to be authentic to my needs and desires. I'm actually allowing myself to go slow, and date - and it feels so much more fun - rather than jumping from relationship to relationship. The pressure is gone and I feel so empowered." 

Louisa

"I feel much more in touch with what I want & need, and clear about who I need to be to attract a partner into my life. I feel more confident, and less insecure and shut down. I'm enjoying this process. I'm having so much fun, I've truly rediscovered a sense of play and I'm enjoying dating - which is huge because I used to have this narrative that I didn't like dating. I'm attracting multiple people and getting vulnerable in ways that I've never done before with men - because now I feel much more in tune with my own femininity, my sexuality, and my body than I ever did before."

Ana

"I had so many more breakthroughs and shifts with Lee and Ani than I have from being in therapy for the last decade. I'm actually really intimate with myself for the first time in my life. I'm more connected to my own needs, instead of just jumping to please others. I'm no longer seeking and dependent on validation from my partner or others, and able to see my own worth. I love how Ani and Lee are so real, open and honest about their relationship. The other women in the program are dope as hell. It's such a beautiful container." 

Jules

"Before Aligned Attraction, I really didn't know what I wanted in dating and it wasn't intentional. It was a much more thoughtful and deep program than I expected from the beginning. And we went really deep, really quickly with an incredible group of women who were really down to go there. So I actually found it much more valuable than kind of one-on-one therapy or coaching. The dynamic between Lee and Ani had a big impact on me  - seeing a very healthy relationship modeled is an extremely unique aspect of this program."

But this experience isn't for everyone...

You must be willing to:
  • Be guided and coached: so you can overcome old patterns and create meaningful, lasting shifts in your dating & love life
  • Commit to yourself and the process by showing up to the best of your ability and being present (if you want commitment from your man, you must first be willing to commit to yourself)
  • Take radical responsibility for creating the love life of your dreams

Meet Your Mentors









Meet Your Mentors

Ani Manian & Lee Noto, Co-Founders of Aligned Attraction 

Ani Manian & Lee Noto 
Co-Founders of Aligned Attraction 

Hey! We're Ani & Lee, and we're on a mission to help one million women cultivate the skills and capacity for healthy, thriving intimacy!

Because ALL of our problems as a human collective come from not knowing how to lovingly relate -- to ourselves and to each other. 

If you look any any conflict or challenge -- global or personal -- it stems from unresolved wounding, unexpressed emotions, an inability to self- regulate, the fabrication of ideas and stories, and ineffective (and even violent) communication.

But what would the world look like if we learned how to intimately and effectively relate to ourselves and each other from a place of compassion and curiosity?

We’d create a radically different reality for ourselves and world around us...

Ani Manian & Lee Noto 
Co-Founders of Aligned Attraction 

Hey! We're Ani & Lee, and we're on a mission to help one million women cultivate the skills and capacity for healthy, thriving intimacy!

Because ALL of our problems as a human collective come from not knowing how to lovingly relate -- to ourselves and to each other. 

If you look any any conflict or challenge -- global or personal -- it stems from unresolved wounding, unexpressed emotions, an inability to self- regulate, the fabrication of ideas and stories, and ineffective (and even violent) communication.

But what would the world look like if we learned how to intimately and effectively relate to ourselves and each other from a place of compassion and curiosity?

We’d create a radically different reality for ourselves and world around us...
However, as a society, we weren’t taught how to do this...

Even in our own households growing up, we both saw and experienced unhealthy models of intimacy between our parents and towards us. 

Which means, we ourselves, had many failed relationships...

Not because they didn't last, but because we repeated the same painful patterns over and over again...

It wasn't until we met each other that we were able to roll our sleeves up and become the mad scientists of our love lives, working through our most challenging patterns with each other. 

And let us tell you, it wasn't always easy. It required effort and intention. 

In all the growth we've experienced, we don't, for a minute, claim to be 'perfect...'

But we do show up with epic amounts of grit, determination, and desire to co-create the most fulfilling lives we can! 
However, as a society, we weren’t taught how to do this...

Even in our own households growing up, we both saw and experienced unhealthy models of intimacy between our parents and towards us. 

Which means, we ourselves, had many failed relationships...

Not because they didn't last, but because we repeated the same painful patterns over and over again...

It wasn't until we met each other that we were able to roll our sleeves up and become the mad scientists of our love lives, working through our most challenging patterns with each other. 

And let us tell you, it wasn't always easy. It required effort and intention. 

In all the growth we've experienced, we don't, for a minute, claim to be 'perfect...'

But we do show up with epic amounts of grit, determination, and desire to co-create the most fulfilling lives we can! 
And now, we want to show you how you can create a Resilient Relationship -- one that GIVES you energy, creates space for you to be your most authentic self, and allows you (and your partner) to evolve alongside each other!

Now, many years later, living and leading this work taken us around the globe many times over to learn from and teach with some of the world’s top experts on love and relationships. 

Combined, we have more than two decades of studying in this field and have spent tens of thousands of hours teaching and coaching others.

We are also both trauma trained psychedelic therapists, who are deeply studied and practiced in helping our clients lovingly resolve trauma, so they can finally create the love lives they've been dreaming of. 

We're here to show you a new way to approach love – one that is full of authenticity, vibrance, connection & pleasure! 

And now, we want to show you how you can create a Resilient Relationship -- one that GIVES you energy, creates space for you to be your most authentic self, and allows you (and your partner) to evolve alongside each other!

Now, many years later, living and leading this work taken us around the globe many times over to learn from and teach with some of the world’s top experts on love and relationships. 

Combined, we have more than two decades of studying in this field and have spent tens of thousands of hours teaching and coaching others.

We are also both trauma trained psychedelic therapists, who are deeply studied and practiced in helping our clients lovingly resolve trauma, so they can finally create the love lives they've been dreaming of. 

We're here to show you a new way to approach love – one that is full of authenticity, vibrance, connection & pleasure! 

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is Aligned Attraction?
  • Aligned Attraction is a modern day relationship school for self-aware women who are ready to break old patterns and create a healthy, thriving, committed relationship.
Who is this program for? 
  • You’re a woman who values and prioritizes her personal development and knows that the quality of her relationships determines the quality of her life
  • You see similar patterns coming up that are keeping you from having the committed, healthy, thriving relationship you desire and you’d like expert support and a powerful community, so you can get to where you want, faster
  • Whether you’re:
  • Single and not actively dating (but would love to start dating again soon)
  • Are actively dating one or more men in a less committed way (and want to move toward commitment)
  • Are dating one man in a more focused way (and want to deepen commitment and connection)
  • You deeply desire at least one of the scenarios below: 
  • If you are single and struggling to meet high quality men: You want to be able to attract men who are emotionally available and ready to commit
  • If you are single + actively dating: You want to overcome undesirable patterns & be able to progress casual dating into a more serious commitment
  • If you are dating in a more focused way: You want to overcome undesirable patterns + create a healthy thriving relationship + be able to deepen your relationship and build toward creating a future that’s based on a shared vision & values
How will Aligned Attraction support me in my dating and love life?
  • Here in Aligned Attraction, we help you:
  • Overcome unhealthy relationship patterns caused by conditioning, childhood wounding, and past heartbreak
  • Get clear on your core values in dating and love, so you build relationships with men who share your values
  • Create a vision for your love life that allows you to move forward with clarity 
  • Create and keep the spark alive in your relationships
  • Identify, navigate, regulate, and communicate your emotions, to create deeper intimacy with yourself & their partners
  • Embrace and navigate your sensuality and sexuality from a place of empowerment and authenticity 
  • Relate to yourself and your partners with love and compassion 
  • Develop the capacity for safe, loving, healthy and deeply intimate relationships
How do I know Aligned Attraction will work for me? 
  • We've had the privilege of supporting numerous women, just like you, in breaking free from unhelpful patterns in their dating and love life. 100% of these women report feeling more confident, authentic and safe to be themselves in dating and love, and many have gone on to create healthy, thriving, committed relationships. 
  • We're here to guide you every step of the way on this journey...all you have to do is be willing to be coached and supported, while taking radical responsibility as the creator of your life.  If you decide that this will be the most profound journey of your life, it will. 
I’ve already invested in other programs / professionals, how is this different? 
    • Inside Aligned Attraction, you'll be guided by a couple who has created the result you desire -- a thriving, healthy relationship based on shared values, authentic communication, passion & play, and a commitment to growth. 
    • Both of us (Ani & Lee) are trauma trained practitioners and have deep experience in working with individuals who have experienced trauma. Our #1 priority in this program is to provide a safe space, full of secure, loving connection, so you can show up fully and authentically as YOU.
    • You'll receive coaching from both a man and woman, providing you with well-rounded perspective and guidance that is as direct as it is loving. 
    • We believe that we're dynamic beings, which means sticking to one approach just doesn't work. We incorporate modalities, teachings, and guidance informed by psychology,  neuroscience, various Eastern spiritual modalities, Tantra, and more. 
    • More than anything, our #1 promise is that you have a consistent, loving space & community that will support you every step of the way. You will feel:
    • Deeply safe to be seen and be completely YOU
    • Securely held in all of your emotions, fears, thoughts, beliefs
    • Wildly expressed + celebrated
    • Connected to the depth of your emotions, desires, needs, sensuality & sexuality 
    • After all, this is how you want to feel with your man, this is a space where you get to practice FEELING that way now!
    What's included?
    • Access to The Aligned Attraction Course + Community
    • 2x/monthly live coaching calls 
    • Quarterly live, virtual retreats
    • Access to all bonus trainings & workshops
    How much time is required each week to get the most out of this program? 
    • We know you lead a busy, engaging life, so we’ve designed the program to help you create results as efficiently and effectively as possible. 
    • By investing 1-2 hours per week, you can attend the live coaching calls + watch some of lessons from the course, and apply the teachings. 
    • In order to make the most of your experience, we highly recommend taking what you learn and implementing it in your day to day life, so you can ensure that the changes stick!
    How long is the program?
    • You will have access to the Aligned Attraction course, community, live calls/retreats, and bonus workshops for as long as you're a member inside the program. 
    • The Aligned Attraction Course is a self-paced experience that you can move through that as quickly or slowly as you want. You'll be able to go back and rewatch content + have access to all new content as we update the course.
    When does the program begin?
    • As soon as you join, you will get access to the course + the live calls and will be able to begin right away. 
    When do the calls take place?
    • The 2x/monthly calls take place every other Wednesday evening from 6-8pm CT.
    • The quarterly retreat dates will be shared on the shared Aligned Attraction Calendar as the next date gets set.
    • If you are unable to make a call or retreat, not to fret! All calls will be recorded and stored in your private course portal.
    What is the investment?
    • $175/week (no commitment required)
    What's the cancellation/refund policy?
    • Our policy is “love it or leave it.” 
    • Aligned Attraction is a community (not a hostage situation). You can leave anytime. If you leave you are unable to rejoin for 12 months.
    • We do our absolute best to support you in creating your dream love life – however, we make no guarantees and we do not offer refunds. 
    • As the saying goes, what you give is what you receive. When you show up in full commitment to yourself, you WILL create extraordinary results!  
    Still have a question?
    • Email me: support@alignedattraction.com
    success stories

    Mikala

    “I can own who I am and have always been…the version of me who feels free, who loves expressing, who is flirty and makes eye contact, who uses intimate communication and is very intentional. I love being flirty and letting my power out!”

    Jen

    “I’ve been able to get clear on what I want and how to express it, as well as how to communicate boundaries. I'm able to have conversations I wasn't able to have before. I feel empowered that I can and will have it all.”
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